4 Types of People and How should be your attitude towards them ?
People can be categorized in following 4
- Happy people
- Unhappy people
- Virtuous People engaged in good acts
- Wicked People engaged in demonic acts
How should be our attitude towards each ?
With Happy People:
Friendliness with all those who are happy
If you are not happy with happy people you become jealous. But if you are in tune with you, you are also happy.
With someone who is unhappy :
Compassionate with Unhappy people. If you are friendly with unhappy people, you become unhappy too. Have compassion or empathy with such people. If you are also unhappy with them, you will be of no use to them and you can't even bring happiness in their lives. Don't say "Oh poor people, see what happened with you", you push them down with this. Imagine w friend if you in this stage, don't pity them, or don't make their belief more strong about the cause of Soweto with them. " oh this shouldn't have happened with you" will not happy, you need to help them to awaken them and make them aware worst could have happened na drains them out from that situation.
With Virtuous:
Be delightful with people engaged in good acts, become one with them, competition and jealousy will go away. People try to find fault if someone does good. Sense of criticism develops. Don't find fault if someone is trying to do good. Feel happy and inspired if someone does good.
With Wicked:
People who do demonic or bad acts, Ignore them, brush it off, not even worth considering about them. We do opposite. We overthink on whoever does wrong and ignore good. Popular Media is all filled by such news only. If you think the person is open to learn, not just ignore and educate out of compassion. If you overthink about "they are imperfect, they are imperfect", it sticks to you. The fact remains everyone of us has some kind of imperfections.
If this principle is understood well, it can make you navigate day to day life interactions with peace.
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